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Thursday December 2nd 2010

 

7.15pm for networking

Main event startsat 8.00 pm sharp

Close at 10.00pm

 

at Banister Park Bowling Club, Eastleigh

 

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Unconscious Competence
Condensed

 

For us this year’s theme has been very exciting in its variety of thought provoking inputs from our Guest speakers. Certain useful patterns have emerged and some interesting new ‘drills’ and exercises  brought along for us to play with.

 

We plan to synthesise and extend what we have ‘modelled’ this year and introduce some ways to approach ‘Unconscious Competence’ which you may never have considered. In particular we have identifies four key elements, which kept cropping up throughout the year. We have adapted and developed exercises to help you become better at achieving your own Unconscious Competence.

 

If you have not been often this year, or even if you have made every meeting, make sure you put the December date in your diary. This is a session which will pull together all the good bits of the year and wrap them up as our Christmas present to you.

 

Oh yes! There will also be mince pies!

Nigel and Jenny Heath

of NLP-South!

 

Nigel and Jenny Heath have been involved in NLP-South, and the group it sprang from, for 15 years or more. They are both Master Practitioners of NLP, Clean Language Facilitators and qualified Life Coaches. They did all their NLP learning together. This meant a shared enthusiasm for the new lessons in life and a continuous appraisal and reflection  on a daily basis of how they were using these new skills at work and at home. For both of them NLP is an attitude of mind and a part of who they are. Initially Jenny used NLP at work to help her build successful teams in Local Government and influence people to excel over whom she had no direct line management. Nigel used NLP to move from a physical therapist to a psychotherapist, helping people with the usual myriad of issues that life brings to us all. Together they used NLP at home to help them deal with the issues of a second long term relationship following divorce, having four children between them going through teenage, whilst they were still new in their relationship, coping with two step children each plus the usual problems of money, career, housing and life.

 

Both are keen modellers and use this skill extensively in their work as specialist Relationship Coaches. Modelling the dynamics of relationships, spotting patterns of behaviour and uncovering the ‘baggage’ which can derail relationships. Unusually they coach together as a team, seamlessly passing the ‘baton’ of questions and observing and reflecting back the patterns they notice. This has immense benefits for their clients, particularly when they coach couples. A key component of their work is in identifying ‘homework’ for their clients to do between sessions. Much of these ‘process’ based exercises either spring from NLP & ‘Clean’, or have been NLPed and ‘Cleaned’ by Nigel and Jenny from their wide study of many other Relationship models and books. Some are their own creations, forged in the crucible of their own relationship, where they have devised some novel and sophisticated models for better communication between men and women.

 

They are both confident public speakers and in 2009 presented and ran workshops at 3 national conferences including the NLP Conference. They have often used sessions at NLP-South to explore their ideas and ‘models’ of relationship work. The ‘modelling’ they have done through the year has been on the learning model of ‘Unconscious Incompetence to Unconscious Competence’ and they believe brings a useful clarity to the thorny issue of how to become better at almost anything!